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The Fuck-It List

I think by now we're all aware of my fascination with the Bucket List(s), well the ladies over at Feministe one upped me and came up with a Fuck-It List. That is, things that you feel positively no need to do before you die.

I feel this is, in a word, brilliant.

  • Piss up a wall
  • Have kids
  • Do things solely to please my parents, family members, or anyone other than myself
  • Buy something because a magazine says it's the best new thing to have

That's all I got so far. I'm sure there will be more.

Comments

Do things solely to please my parents, family members, or anyone other than myself

That's the one I'm struggling with.
Believe it or not, that's one that my family would say I've never had a problem with, but that I say I've struggled with all my life.

I've finally gotten to the point where I no longer feel the need to live up to other people's expectations. This does not, however, absolve me from the guilt of not, you know?